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  1. I’ve always thought that, like anything, your INTENT is what makes the difference. If one chooses to celebrate the day by dressing up as something evil, violent, etc. and participate in activities like pranks, Ouija boards, séances, and so on, then the intent is clearly un-Christian. But dressing up as positive things – superheroes, doctors, firefighters…and engaging in activities that are positive like pumpkin carving, apple bobbing, hayrides, and just generally getting to know your neighbors and celebrate the turn of the season….well how is that un-Christian?

    God knows what’s in your hear and if one’s intent is to spend the day generally being positive and community oriented, then that’s what matters to Him.

  2. Is there any way you can share some ideas on how you make the Guess Who Loves you crafty things to hand out??? I would love to do this but I am not very creative or crafty, however I can follow directions pretty well.just making these with my children to hand out would be such a awesome memory for the season. Way more meaningful than pumpkin carving.

  3. I really do love your blog! We may not be on the same page as far as Faith views, but I love reading the love you have for not only your family, but your community and Jesus!
    I hope you don’t mind, but I would love to link this blog post to mine.
    I think its great how you take this time to reach out in a way that teaches your children not only love, but acceptance.

  4. I find this post so refreshing!! I am a youth and children’s minister, and my family has never hidden from Halloween. In fact, I used to take our youth group to our local hospital pediatric unit and called it “No Tricks, Just Treats”. We would take bags full of goodies, coloring books, toys, Bibles, info about our church, etc. Unfortunately we stopped because a few people complained that we were “glorifying” Halloween. As for my family, we use it as a night where we go as a family and visit all of our shut-ins from church. They love the visit, and the kids still get to dress up and have fun. I agree, every holiday, and every day in between, is completely what you make it. Look for ways to glorify God in your every day life, and you’ll find them!!

  5. I will have to respectively disagree with the idea of participating in hopes of spreading God’s truth with others. I don’t think we should hide away that night or shoo children away if they happen to ring the doorbell, but I think we can be a bigger witness to others by showing our strong faith in Jesus and standing up against something we know He wouldn’t want us to participate in.

    Everyone needs to decide what is best for themselves and their family and go the way God is leading them. And maybe that is sharing God’s word at Halloween. The Bible says we are not to be conformed to the world. Another word for conform could be go along with. (Romans 12:2) Personally though our family chooses not to join in.

  6. Great Ideas!
    This year, my grandmother (my daughter’s great-grandmother) now resides in a nursing home. They had a “trick or treat” there, where children could come and dress up, play games, get candy, share cookies and juice, ect. and it was a very nice (not scary! Safe! Uplifting!) time! Maybe using Halloween to share and offer some service is another good idea. We really enjoyed it, and look forward to making it a tradition.

  7. I was just thinking about this for next year because the thought came to me so late. Thus has been an ongoing issue with me and my best friend. She celebrates what the church calls trunk or treat. I on the other hand choose not to participate at all. The issue is when the kids are at school, so these holidays are difficult to avoid. I’d rather use it as an opportunity to spread the good news, because honestly I was going to just wrap the candy in a paper exposing the truth about holloween.

  8. Since becoming a Christian, and now a mom, I’ve also been struggling with how to handle Halloween with my kids when they’re older. Thank you so much for this post! I’ve read several of your posts tonight and have bookmarked your blog to read more later 🙂

  9. wow, thankyou so much for writing this! My fiancé and I are getting married in April and are planning to have kids right away and with that we have been talking about ways to go about the holidays while still glorifying Jesus, with Halloween just passing it has been really hard for me to think of a way for our future kids to still enjoy the fun part of Halloween without all of the yuckiness that surrounds and I loved the way this post explained it!
    xo

  10. I had no idea that Halloween made Christians feel divisive. Why do you think that is? I just think it is a fun time of year to decorate your house and have people over to eat too much pizza and pass out candy to the neighbors for 6 hours. We put a fog machine at the top of our stairs, and the entire ceiling was sprawling with spider webs, and all the tables and windows had green and purple lights in them. I didn’t know this was supposed to be a religious holiday – am I offending my neighbors by not adding a message about Christ to the candy I give their children?

  11. I grew up being VERY anti-halloween and by choice really, my parents were divorced and at mom didn’t celebrate, dad did. Either parent was ok with me being at the other’s house that evening to celebrate as I would but I always chose mom’s. I don’t regret the wonderful family nights we had on Oct. 31- but I do feel like I missed out and also further ostracized myself from my peers because I was already picked on and very outspoken about my halloween feels. Well as an adult, with kids, and married to someone who always participated in a more light hearted way- I had to spend some time reconsidering and really understanding why I felt the way I did. I came to the conclusion that I understand why many people, including my younger self, have such qualms with the holiday- but also that there are many good/appropriate ways to redeem/celebrate- just like most of the holidays we currently celebrate. It’s something I still wrestle with every time Oct. 31 draws near but my children adore dressing up and candy (who wouldn’t?) and as they are getting older and actually understanding what we’re doing we are finding ways to incorporate some “Light shining” activities and starting our season of thankfulness and giving early! I so very much appreciate this post!

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